Do you struggle...
...with consistency in your prayer resolutions?
...to find devout friendships and accountability?
...with the shallowness of modern living?
...with your personal weakness?
...to advance past basic meditation?
1) 12-Step Interior Path: an individual's journey to embark and progress through the purgative stage of prayer. First-timers should go through steps 1-3 as a primer to learn mental prayer; those who want tips on how to develop the habit should go to steps 4-7; those who want to advance to contemplation should go to steps 8-12. The formation and practices in the Interior Path are based on the wisdom of the saints. If you genuinely make it through all of the videos, reading, and practices in each step, you are well on your way to sainthood.
2) Interior Disciple Kickstart Lessons: discuss 1-3 points at the monthly meeting from these hand-picked passages synthesizing the essentials of the interior life. These lessons are found in step 8 of the Interior Path. Here is a sample.
3) Spiritual Theology Reading: After the group has advanced (say, after 6-9 months), you can get creative with texts your group can go through together in place of the Interior Disciple Lessons and the 12 Steps to the Interior Life. Recommended texts are listed in Step 12 of the Interior Path
Intro: SOCA staff offers an intro call with your group and will join for at least the first few meetings to help you get started
Daily: individual resolution for at least 15 minutes of mental prayer and habit-tracking
Weekly: 2-4 members on a 20 minute weekly phone call check-in on daily progress
Monthly: group discussion and fraternal social for all members in the area
Quarterly: assess group's progress and evaluate opportunities for growth or change
1) Why: From the Saints
2) What: 5-Step Mental Prayer Explained
3) How: FAQs on Mental Prayer
Developing the Daily Habit
4) Custom Mental Prayer Plan of Life
5) Daily Appointment Reminders
6) Habit-Tracking
7) Weekly Peer Check-Ins for Three Months
Advancement
8) Interior Disciple Lessons
9) Infused Contemplation Formation
10) Recollection Plan Throughout the Day
11) Advanced Custom Plan of Life
12) Spiritual Theology Reading Plan
Normally we recommend keeping it very simple with a short 15-20 minute phone call with 2 others. We have a simple setup process and method of running these weekly meetings to not burden you.
Praise God! We would recommend splitting into sub groups of 3-4 that have weekly phone check ins. Then everyone can come together once a month for the group discussion.
That’s no problem at all and we’ll help teach you the way. Check out the Mental Prayer Crash Course in steps 1-3!
You can invite others in your group to sign up and we can do a setup call to help you add mental prayer accountability acts a quick check-in at the end of your normal small group meetings. Otherwise, you can do this with different friends or peers we connect you with in addition to your small group since this is a short call.
All of us can use a push of accountability to push ourselves to pray more or with more energy. Accountability act as a net to make sure we don't fall off the wagon. Finally, the 12-Step Interior Path has many resources to learn about advancement in contemplation, the presence of God, developing a thorough plan of life, etc.
Does SOCA give us accountability? Or do you connect us?
You get to choose which forms of the accountability you want! The one we consider most effective is the weekly peer calls; our goal is to make sure no one who wants that is left hanging on their own.
SOCA's setup process can help you make it a cleaner process so it has a good foundation for the long haul; often, groups die out for a variety of factors (too much of a time commitment, people move, there are too many commitments, etc.) or are not effective due to a lack of specific accountability (i.e. it is more of a vague "how is it going? are you praying?"). SOCA's model solves these, and having a facilitator solidify things
It is up to you! If you opt for peer accountability, however, it is a minimum commitment of three months out of fairness to everyone a part of it. We recommend quarterly assessing the group's members, structure, and formation.
If that is really the case, that is great! We still recommend habit-tracking and a weekly report. Having friends who also hold you accountable often adds an element of gravitas to it as well.
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